http://askdanandmike.com If You Want to Know... Just ASK Tue, 21 Jun 2011 17:38:52 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v= http://askdanandmike.com/90/q-and-a-emotional-vs-physical-cheating#comment-977 Lori Wed, 16 Feb 2011 22:53:24 +0000 http://askdanandmike.com/?p=90#comment-977 after 30 yrs of marriage, my husband has cheated on me. he is 48 and im 50 we have 4 children and 2 grandchildren. we own 2 businesses which are struggling in todays economy and he has not worked in the past year and a half. our other business that i run is only paying and its bill and barely that. he says with all the stress, he started drinking too much and that led up to meeting this woman in a bar. she is much more educated than either of us. she is everything i am not. she is very small and very athletic and i have never been. my husband does like doing athletic stuff and all these years i thought he loved me for who i am but all of a sudden, he is sleeping with my complete opposite. he has stopped seeing her and has stopped drinking but only because he got a DUI. im afraid he will find another woman now that he has had a taste of that life. he just says for me to get over it and move on, how can i do that! i have committed my life to him and i don't want leave him. i would love to understand why he did this. did he love her? did they laugh at me and what they were doing to me? was she better in bed than i am? what did they talk about? where did they go and what did they do when they were together? did he introduce her to his friends? these and soooo many more questions are unanswered. he says he doesnt' remember and if he did he says its over and he doesn't want to talk about it. I DO DAMMIT! I DO! do you have any suggestions on what i can do? after 30 yrs of marriage, my husband has cheated on me. he is 48 and im 50 we have 4 children and 2 grandchildren. we own 2 businesses which are struggling in todays economy and he has not worked in the past year and a half. our other business that i run is only paying and its bill and barely that. he says with all the stress, he started drinking too much and that led up to meeting this woman in a bar. she is much more educated than either of us. she is everything i am not. she is very small and very athletic and i have never been. my husband does like doing athletic stuff and all these years i thought he loved me for who i am but all of a sudden, he is sleeping with my complete opposite. he has stopped seeing her and has stopped drinking but only because he got a DUI. im afraid he will find another woman now that he has had a taste of that life. he just says for me to get over it and move on, how can i do that! i have committed my life to him and i don’t want leave him. i would love to understand why he did this. did he love her? did they laugh at me and what they were doing to me? was she better in bed than i am? what did they talk about? where did they go and what did they do when they were together? did he introduce her to his friends? these and soooo many more questions are unanswered. he says he doesnt’ remember and if he did he says its over and he doesn’t want to talk about it. I DO DAMMIT! I DO! do you have any suggestions on what i can do?

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